Hold the room without bullying it.
Pick a recent meeting where you held the contrarian view and lost it. Re-run it on paper: what did you ARGUE, and what could you have ASKED instead?
'I think we shouldn't fire him' becomes 'What specifically did he do — and what would success look like in 90 days if we kept him?'
'I think this market is bigger than that' becomes 'If we were wrong about the market size, what evidence would we expect to see in the next quarter?'
'I think the strategy is wrong' becomes 'Walk me through the assumption that has to hold for this to work — and what would tell us it doesn't?'
Argue less. Ask more. Slow the timeline. Test the evidence. The slow turn isn't a single move; it's a sequence of individual changes of mind, made when each person is given space to examine their own reasons.
Re-do this exercise after the next contested meeting. The skill compounds.
